{"id":25662,"date":"2018-06-27T08:00:35","date_gmt":"2018-06-27T12:00:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.yiddishecup.com\/blog\/?p=25662"},"modified":"2018-06-27T09:59:04","modified_gmt":"2018-06-27T13:59:04","slug":"wrongful-death","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.yiddishecup.com\/blog\/2018\/06\/27\/wrongful-death\/","title":{"rendered":"WRONGFUL DEATH"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #993366;\"><strong>Two of<\/strong> <\/span>my friends\u2019 parents died the same week. The first funeral was a massive Catholic Mass, and the second was a small Jewish affair. At both funerals, mourners chit-chatted about wrongful death. The Catholic man had gone into a local satellite hospital for a fairly routine matter, then went to \u201ccode blue,\u201d and died. The Jewish woman had a procedure on her trachea and died. They were both in their 80s.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-25773\" src=\"http:\/\/www.yiddishecup.com\/blog\/home\/yiddis6\/public_html\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/bad-gig-190x300.jpg\" alt=\"bad gig\" width=\"190\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.yiddishecup.com\/blog\/home\/yiddis6\/public_html\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/bad-gig-190x300.jpg 190w, http:\/\/www.yiddishecup.com\/blog\/home\/yiddis6\/public_html\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/bad-gig.jpg 480w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 190px) 100vw, 190px\" \/>When my father died, he was treated first by a Mt. Sinai Hospital doc, then a Cleveland Clinic doctor. My dad thought he might get better care at the Clinic. Nope.<\/p>\n<p>Marc Jaffe, a comedian, once told me that he wants to interview people regarding the best way to die. Like he will go up to a guy impaled on a picket fence and say, \u201cHey, is that a good death?\u201d You don\u2019t know till you try it. (The interview and the death.)<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #993366;\"><strong>People I<\/strong><\/span> know &#8212; and know of, in a fanboy way &#8212; who have died recently:<\/p>\n<p>From my gen . . . Lillian Goldberg, a friend; David Ariel, former head of the Cleveland College of Jewish Studies.<\/p>\n<p>Older gen . . . Philip Roth, Tom Wolfe, Donald Hall.<\/p>\n<p>[I should convert &#8220;my gen&#8221; to &#8220;older gen&#8221; right after I post this. The older crowd &#8212; the Silent Gen and WWII folk &#8212; is  tapped out.]<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #008000;\">I wrote a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.city-journal.org\/html\/donald-hall-15987.html\">tribute<\/a> to Donald Hall, who died Saturday. He was a mentor to me. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.city-journal.org\/html\/donald-hall-15987.html\">&#8220;The Freelancer&#8221; <\/a><\/span><span style=\"color: #008000;\">in <em>City Journal<\/em>.<\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_25774\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-25774\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-25774\" src=\"http:\/\/www.yiddishecup.com\/blog\/home\/yiddis6\/public_html\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/donald-hall-and-bert-aug-2000-new-hampshire-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"Donald Hall (L) and Bert Stratton, New Hampshire, 2000\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.yiddishecup.com\/blog\/home\/yiddis6\/public_html\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/donald-hall-and-bert-aug-2000-new-hampshire-300x200.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.yiddishecup.com\/blog\/home\/yiddis6\/public_html\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/donald-hall-and-bert-aug-2000-new-hampshire-768x512.jpg 768w, http:\/\/www.yiddishecup.com\/blog\/home\/yiddis6\/public_html\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/donald-hall-and-bert-aug-2000-new-hampshire.jpg 872w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-25774\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Donald Hall (L) and Bert Stratton, New Hampshire, 2000<\/p><\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #008000;\">&#8212;-<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #008000;\">I wrote &#8220;Me and my <a href=\"http:\/\/beltmag.com\/me-and-my-mower\/\">Lawnmower&#8221;<\/a> for Belt Mag. This one is not about anybody dying, but it does touch on the subject.<br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Two of my friends\u2019 parents died the same week. The first funeral was a massive Catholic Mass, and the second was a small Jewish affair. At both funerals, mourners chit-chatted about wrongful death. The Catholic man had gone into a local satellite hospital for a fairly routine matter, then went to \u201ccode blue,\u201d and died. 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