{"id":18389,"date":"2015-06-24T08:00:23","date_gmt":"2015-06-24T12:00:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.yiddishecup.com\/blog\/?p=18389"},"modified":"2015-06-26T08:23:31","modified_gmt":"2015-06-26T12:23:31","slug":"listen-up","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.yiddishecup.com\/blog\/2015\/06\/24\/listen-up\/","title":{"rendered":"LISTEN UP"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #993366;\"><strong>My father<\/strong><\/span> wore a hearing aid from age 50-on. He went to a hearing expert, William Lippy in Warren, Ohio, for stapedectomy surgery, but the surgery didn\u2019t help.<\/p>\n<p>My dad missed nuances because of his poor hearing.\u00a0 For instance, I would say, \u201cHaney [a custodian] is burning some shit in the incinerator. The firemen told him not to.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>My dad would answer, \u201cA lady is learning what?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I repeated it slower. My dad would say, \u201cNow you\u2019re starting to tell me something!\u201d<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.yiddishecup.com\/blog\/2015\/06\/24\/listen-up\/hearing-loss\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-18555\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-18555\" title=\"hearing loss\" src=\"http:\/\/www.yiddishecup.com\/blog\/home\/yiddis6\/public_html\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/hearing-loss-300x164.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"164\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.yiddishecup.com\/blog\/home\/yiddis6\/public_html\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/hearing-loss-300x164.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.yiddishecup.com\/blog\/home\/yiddis6\/public_html\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/hearing-loss.jpg 800w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><span style=\"color: #993366;\"><strong>My father<\/strong><\/span> liked to give advice, maybe because he didn&#8217;t hear advice. He spoke very deliberately. He was like Sevareid. My dad&#8217;s main advice was &#8220;Look out for yourself, no one else will.&#8221; Bill, a tenant, ran a beauty parlor; my dad said to him, \u201cI\u2019m only looking out for myself, Bill.\u00a0 You&#8217;re just giving me a two-percent CPI increase.\u201d\u00a0 (Bill was trying to low-ball a renewal figure on his beauty parlor lease.)<\/p>\n<p>Bill said, &#8220;You don\u2019t have to tell me about looking out for myself. I own a rental condo.\u201d Store tenants frequently owned residential rental property on the side, like double houses or condos by the lake.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThere is nothing short of outright speculation that will equal real estate,\u201d my dad\u00a0 said.\u00a0 \u201cThere are unmerciful and countless forces arrayed against us.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #993366;\"><strong>Listen up.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&#8212;-<\/p>\n<p><small>The quote &#8220;There is nothing short of outright speculation that will equal real estate . . .&#8221; <\/small><small>is out of context here; my dad didn&#8217;t say it to Bill. My dad wrote it in an unpublished manuscript.\u00a0 More on that some other time.<br \/>\n<\/small><\/p>\n<p>&#8212;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #008000;\">I wrote a <a style=\"color: #008000;\" href=\"http:\/\/beltmag.com\/my-acceptance-letter\/\">good article<\/a> about my father for the latest Belt Mag.<\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_23334\" style=\"width: 277px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.yiddishecup.com\/blog\/home\/yiddis6\/public_html\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/toby-5_31_67.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-23334\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-23334\" src=\"http:\/\/www.yiddishecup.com\/blog\/home\/yiddis6\/public_html\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/toby-5_31_67-267x300.jpg\" alt=\"Theodore &quot;Toby&quot; Stratton, age 50, 1967\" width=\"267\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.yiddishecup.com\/blog\/home\/yiddis6\/public_html\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/toby-5_31_67-267x300.jpg 267w, http:\/\/www.yiddishecup.com\/blog\/home\/yiddis6\/public_html\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/toby-5_31_67-914x1024.jpg 914w, http:\/\/www.yiddishecup.com\/blog\/home\/yiddis6\/public_html\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/toby-5_31_67.jpg 944w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 267px) 100vw, 267px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-23334\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Theodore &#8220;Toby&#8221; Stratton, age 50, 1967<\/p><\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #008000;\"><strong>&#8212;<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #008000;\">Come to\u00a0 Cain Park (Cleveland Heights) Sunday (June 28) at\u00a0 7 p.m. for a free klezmer concert. Evans Amphitheater. No tix necessary. Yiddishe Cup plays the second half of the show. The first half is Steven Greenman and Lori Cahan-Simon. The 37th Annual Workmen&#8217;s Circle <a href=\"37th%20Annual Yiddish Concert in the Park: Klez From Kleveland\">Yiddish Concert<\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.yiddishecup.com\/blog\/home\/yiddis6\/public_html\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/band-of-7.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-23335 size-medium\" style=\"border: 2px solid #000000;\" src=\"http:\/\/www.yiddishecup.com\/blog\/home\/yiddis6\/public_html\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/band-of-7-278x300.jpg\" alt=\"band of 7\" width=\"278\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.yiddishecup.com\/blog\/home\/yiddis6\/public_html\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/band-of-7-278x300.jpg 278w, http:\/\/www.yiddishecup.com\/blog\/home\/yiddis6\/public_html\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/band-of-7.jpg 557w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 278px) 100vw, 278px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My father wore a hearing aid from age 50-on. He went to a hearing expert, William Lippy in Warren, Ohio, for stapedectomy surgery, but the surgery didn\u2019t help. My dad missed nuances because of his poor hearing.\u00a0 For instance, I would say, \u201cHaney [a custodian] is burning some shit in the incinerator. The firemen told [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[13],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18389","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-toby-stratton"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yiddishecup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18389","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yiddishecup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yiddishecup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yiddishecup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yiddishecup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18389"}],"version-history":[{"count":10,"href":"http:\/\/www.yiddishecup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18389\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":23347,"href":"http:\/\/www.yiddishecup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18389\/revisions\/23347"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yiddishecup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18389"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yiddishecup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18389"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yiddishecup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18389"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}